I think this is a great way of just keeping guys together and talking current...but I always ask this question, what about me?
You ask why? Does is sound vain at all?
Here is my POV...there is a breed that exists in the humankind and giving is their element and their everything. They give of their time and their being. They love you and they are constantly giving and never taking time to do a stock take of themselves. If they are not doing that they feel lost and out of place. They will run into your kitchen and check on the preparations for a meal and if you need help. They will call you and text you to check up on you. They will encourage you when you feel you are at your worst etc the list is endless of the things they do.
These people I have realized escape into the giving sphere subconsciously and yet do not realize that it is time for them to receive. That you should be on the seat, laying down with grapes and fruits being fed to you. You should be soaking in massage oils and getting a deep tissue rub down that would eventually make your blood circulation more vibrant.
So when do they ask about themselves? When they compare themselves to the world. They use the world as a measure to determine whether they are happy or deserving. That my friends is not a good place to be. They are very vulnerable when confronted by their own issues - fear of failure, rejection etc. Their I unit is GIVE and GIVE...receive is a foreign concept to them.
Let's take some time and recognize the people who are always in your face showing you love and without them you acknowledge the void. Let's ask them "What about you?"
